The Charismatic Seducer

Nov 12, 2010 by Don Freedman

Have you ever noticed how certain celebrities and political leaders have some magnetic X factor you cannot quite put your finger on?

Maybe you’ve even had a few friends with this almost magical X factor.

What exactly is it? What’s it called?

It’s called charisma.

Have you ever wondered: is charisma some innate quality you’re born with or is it something you can develop?

Many psychologists will tell you it’s something you’re born with.

But I’m a firm believer that it’s something you can develop.

Today I’m going to share two qualities you can develop that will make you more charismatic.

1) Being More Mysterious:

There are two sides to this.

The first is developing contradictory personality traits.

An example of a charismatic political leader with contradictory personality traits is Peter the Great. He was both cruel and kind.

When you have contradictory personality traits people cannot categorize you.

A woman may become angry or frustrated that she cannot figure you out. However, this will spellbound her.

The second part is being uncanny.

When people think you have supernatural powers they see you as charismatic.

This is why cult leaders and some political stewards (in some parts of the world) are perceived by others as possessing charisma.

2) Inspiring Others To Be Better Than They Are:

If you can goad a person into seeing themselves as better than they currently are, they will see you as charismatic. If you can spur them to take action on this realization, they’ll see you as a super charismatic person.

John F. Kennedy was a master at this.

He spellbound America when he said, “It’s not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country.”

He made us think we could be better people than we were.

Here’s your homework assignment:

1) Write down two of your personality traits that are in contradiction with one another. Instead of trying to conceal them, develop them and flaunt them.

2) Think of how you can reframe what people say to inspire them to be better than they are.

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